Younger Members Chat #1

[ElleJay]

I'm sorry AF turned up as well, but she's been and gone and now the fest begins! We've planned on BDing every 2nd day until around the time of O (then it'll be every day) then we've got a damn good chance! We've got the excuse of being newlyweds anyways I just get ultra jealous seeing people that have been TTC for only one or two (or even three) months getting when there's been us, who's been trying (on and off mind you) for 14 months! I mean, granted, we've only been TTC properly for 2 months (this is our third month), but I would hope that I'd get somewhere close by now!
We had DFs nans funeral today and being a pallbearer hit home to how much they're including me in everything. It was a beautiful service and she looked so peaceful and beautiful.
We've now got the rehearsal tomorrow and the bucks/hens nights Friday and Saturday being the big day! UGH I can't wait for SUNDAY!

[Alyssas_Mum]

Wow 2 days, GL with your rehearsal and Hens night.
I should prob get a wriggle on and start looking into what to do for my sisters hens night. Any ideas anyone?
She's settled on a black and fushia as the colours for the wedding, it was purple and silver but she changed her mind cause she likes the looks of pink dresses and they are easier to come by than purple.

Miss Charli slept sooo well last night from 8.15pm - 6.20am and only woke up once between then at 1am for a her feed and went straight back to sleep. I love it when she sleeps like that at night.

[[M]umma[M]ia]

2 days! ahhhh exciting!!! dont worry about the TTC time period liz.. remember it took me 2 years. Its a pain but just keep in the back of your mind ........one day, u will have your forever baby.


Kirra - glad Charli slept well.. Mia went down about 8:30pm lastnight and i woke her at 11:30pm (dreamfeed) and she slept till bout 7:30 this morning so cant complain. Just wish she would give me a break during the day. But that said, she is asleep now. Its the afternoon time when she turns abit feral lol.

[Alyssas_Mum]

Charli isnt the best sleeper during the day, that said today she has been good. lol. But arvo's she barely sleeps at all and is really sooky.
We got some infacol for her yesterday and she seems really settled today so it must be helping.
Off to make some cupcakes with alyssa while charli is sleeping

[trini246]

Charli isnt the best sleeper during the day, that said today she has been good. lol. But arvo's she barely sleeps at all and is really sooky.
We got some infacol for her yesterday and she seems really settled today so it must be helping.
Off to make some cupcakes with alyssa while charli is sleeping

Hahahahaha i think Alexys & Charli were seperated at birth as Alexys hate sleeping during the day & is all grumpy & grizzly because she is over tired..i think it has alot to do with her not wanting to miss anything (just like her daddy) Have people been asking you when you are having your next one? we are getting it all the times atm & i am like "WTF we just had one"

Liz - enjoy your wedding as much as possible as the day will fly by & you will be married before you know it..im sooo excited for you! cant wait to see pics, i bet you will look stunning

Holly - YAY its nearly your birthday not that anyone was counting hehehe

Alexys had her 6 week check up yesterday & it went well! she is healthy with no real prob..she has been put on Zantac for her reflux so we are hoping that helps & the GP is thinking that the green poo is due to a mild lactose intolerance which she should hopefully grow out of
I returned to work last Saturday, im working 9-4 only on saturdays & i never thought 7 hours would draaaaaaaaag on so long...i missed Alexys like crazy but it was good to let her have alone time with her daddy!

[Alyssas_Mum]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO HOLLYE, Hope you have a great day!

Trini- they prob were, lol. Charli is even worse when we got out and i put her down for a sleep, she just screams.
Alyssa has reflux and boy o boy was she a ferrel, she used to projectile vomit and it was soooo messy. She was a really unsettled baby too.
Charli is in bed atm and she is not sleeping the lil rascal, i think i might have to get her up and feed her again.

Tomorrow is the big day LJ, good luck, not that you will need it and have lots of fun tonight at your hens party.

I'm off to the physio today, my back has been so sore for months and im finally off to get something done about it. lol

[trini246]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY HOLLY!

[alioops]

Hollye - Happy Belated birthday!!!

LJ - Welcome to the world of 'Smug marrieds' Is it really that obvious that I am a SATC fan?!?!

Not much happening here, just saying hi!!

[lauren22]

hey guys
hope i fit into this thread :S
i guess im wanting some support for younger couples.
hows everyones pregnancy/ babies going along?
how do you find things being a young parent
im only 23 and DF is only 24 probably not super young but i feel so young atm haha
xox

[lauren22]

Me and DF are having an issue. Ive had a bit of trouble this week with the pregnancy and DF took some time of work ( a week) which was lovley. I felt a little like a child being cared for but it was nice to have the time with DF. But i was cleared today and i asked DF if he was going back to work this week and he said he is probably going to take another week off work.We really need money at the moment and DF is in a desk job that is about to offer a promotion which will pay very nicely. But when i confronted him about going back to work he got very defensive saying i didnt want him there and i didnt apreciate him. How can i tackle a sensative fiance? It seems impossible.

[tattoo_mama]

welcome lauren, hmm thats a toughie...not that i am good at taking my own advice but maybe sit down with him , maybe over dinner or a coffee/tea, and let him know you love him etc, maybe something at work has upset him and thats why hes taking extra time off? are you working also? if not maybe he is feeling under alot of pressure to provide for the both of you? let him know you do appreciate him and want him around, and that this new life is one you made 'together' and therefore need to contribute together, if this means him working and you stay home and do housewifey stuff, then so be it. HTH

[ElleJay]

Tomorrow is going to be a busy day for me, so I just wanted to wish you a huge happy birthday Holly
Have a great 21st and look after yourself

[Me+him+bub]

hi again ladies thought id pop in!

liz - with the TTC have u had any tests done? do u track your ovulation i used the fertility monitor and on the second month i got pregnant! after 2 years i finally pinpointed when i ovulated and walla! u should get hormones tested as well as DF's sperm as my DF had problems even though is fit and doesnt smoke or drink. Its best to get started young otherwise another year down the track you wish u got help earlier, we have specialists appointments booked and were starting IVF this year but fortunately we dont have to go down that path but its early days yet so u never know also im also one who gets envious of women saying it took them ages to get Preg and it was like 3 months! maybe if u try continuously for a year it will happen! also u have gotten preg once so u know it can happen! thats half the trouble to begin with!