The fires aren't near us, we're very lucky. I'm on some medication at the moment, so in about 5 months or so I'm going to think about it. Perhaps in August or September. My DD is 2, and I was wanting her to be closer to 3yo, just hoping she'd be toilet training and in her own bed. Twisting DF's arm will be very tricky. He's really not ready for another baby, and I so want him to be ready by winter. I hope to get married early next year, so if I am pregnant at my wedding, I'd be about 8 months at the very most. Perhaps pushing back the baby dates until October or November is better? That would make me about 6 months at most. Argh, I'm planning my planning!