oh dear, i just had a nice long post but i went and deleted it all somehow!!

well, i guess i better start again huh? lol

i'm 19, and my DH is 22, and we're 9weeks pregnant with our first bub, who was a ''sortof'' surprise lol.

i was just thinking the other day how awesome it would be if BB had a group for young parents, and yet, all i had to do was really just look a little harder i guess :P all the other mums-to-be in my BB group are older than me, (mid 20's to late 30's) and dont really seem to talk to me much whenever i post on my thread, so im feeling a little left out in that sense..

a little about me...
my DH and i have been together for nearly 5 years, (yeh yeh i know, just a tad young :P ) and weve been married for a little over one (i was 18, and he was 21 at marriage) but we've been through ALOT in the past 3-4 years with my health issues, so we figured if we were able to make it through those together, surely we can get through marriage!

i've been treated pretty well, but then again, only my family knows so far really, only a couple of REALLY close friends, one of which is on BB, so i had no chance of even trying to keep it from her :P but they've all taken it pretty well, as my sister had her baby around the same time as i am, but i will be a few months older than her at birth. and this will be their 5th grandchild, (i am the youngest by 8 years to my nearest sibling, and 12.5 years to my oldest) so its not really a MASSIVE shock sorta thing lol. but my DH is the youngest of 2, and this will be the first grandchild, so she was a tad more surprised :P
but yeah.. all in all, we havent received any criticism, but im sure once i get bigger, and random people i dont even know will be aware of it, that i will get more dirty looks and such. but im hoping that no extended family or friends will say anything nasty.. seeing as ive known most of them a long time, and they know us pretty well to know if we werent ready we wouldnt let it happen (we HAVE been together for nearly 5 years, so THAT must say something! lol!)


just wondering how young you all were when you had ur first bubs? and what kind of looks and comments u all received with it? just out of curiosity, as i've always wondered how different people in different circumstances have been treated when falling pregnant early..

but anyways.. itll be nice to hear from some of you!