Thanks Rach82 and Myturn....it seems that I need to prepare myself for a couple of months to start.... I can definately see the benefits of the counselling and feel sure that during the treatment I will need it, but I don't want it to be the thing that holds things up.....I have read so much on the topic and have gotten out IVF for Dummies from the library which was very helpful..

Its so good to hear so much positive feedback around QFG...gives me a sense of relief...Good luck with both of you!!!