Hi, thanks so much for your message. It was really helpful and I really appreciate it. I do feel very supported already. And it's true what you say about walking in another person's shoes. I guess each person has their own unique experience of the world and comparing maybe simplifies things too much.
So, I feel far more resolved now, thank you - I'm going to book in to see the fertility specialist & check out those other forums. Wishing you all the best, Lillmisshavachat.