Hi all. DH and I (married 3y) are about to start 'Pre-conditioning' prior to IVF/ISCI. Issues: ovarian reserve, sperm and age (me 40 DH 43). The feelings of failure and lament for lost opportunities has been hard, but we are positively moving forward. We are seeking some insight as to what men experience while going through this so we can put our experiences into perspective, which may help. Any input gratefully received