I think the thing my DH found hardest was the lack of intimacy and romance in the baby making process. It sounds like an easy thing to try to help (by us ladies being a little more intimate with them during the IVF journey), but it's not as easy as it sounds as we are also going through sooooo much at the same time. Not to mention the emotional upheaval that can be caused by all our hormonal changes...

Best of luck with your journey. I hope it all goes nice and smooth for you hence forth.