I totally understand the moral dilemma that you are going through. It is tough to try and decide what the right thing to do is. We were faced with the same thing 20 months ago. We had decided that we would freeze all but 1 implanted embryo and i was panicking that we might have twenty+ frozen and I wasn't willing to destroy any We only ended up with two viable to freeze so fortunately it has been a much easier journey, morally. After the birth of our daughter from icsi 10months ago we are now ready to use the embryos.

In hindsight i would have said to only freeze the amount of embryos according to the number of children we wanted. It is such a big decision that you have to make at a time when you're not really capable of making decisions. Good luck