Oh dear, that is embarrassing...surely the dr and nurses didn't know?? They probably just thought you were doing you pelvic floor exercises to help keep the embie in?!? ( clutching at straws here)

It makes sense though- hormones, someone fiddling around down below,maybe they were touching your G spot with instruments??. I'm sure you would not be the first one that it happened to so try not to dwell on it. you are definately not a freak, you have normal bodily functions like everyone else. Imagine if guys had people fiddling with them for IVF- it would happen all the time!!

And to top it all off a BFN- that sucks.

Anyway, onwards and upwards, please don't let it put you off trying again, as no one will even remember it except you. To try and prevent it happening, number1; I imagine you will be so stressed about it that it would be unlikely to happen again, and number 2; can you or your partner, ahem, 'take care of yourself' prior to the transfer?? It would be less likely to happen then I imagine.

I'll share a recent embarrassing story with you- I recently got a BFP via IVF, so DH and I have been abstinent for a while cos Im on progesterone pessaries ( too messy). The other morning I woke up to find myself having a spontaneous orgasm in my dream, was so shocked when I woke up,especially as it gave me the WORST cramping that lasted all day- i was so panicked that i was giving myself a miscarriage because of my 'wet dream ' or whatever you would all it. So you are not the only one having random orgasms while under the influence of ivf drugs!!

Best of luck for your next cycle too xx