After 3 simple transfers, my last transfer (#4) was a nightmare. I knew I was in trouble when he said "I'm just going to use this instrument to hold your cervix". It was just like my HSG and I really hope I never have another like that again. I hadn't been aware of any sort of connection between traumatic transfers and BFN's at the time, so I'll be asking him about that before we do the next one - thanks.

I hope your trial transfer goes well so you can avoid the pain and the GA.