Hi Ladies glad I found this thread my husband and I were discussing this today. We had DS in 2009 after 2 ICSI attempts but only 1 transfer and are looking to try again in March. Miscarriages arent common in my family but we both have male and female infertility and have 4 beautiful blastocysts frozen. I told my husband we might not be so lucky this time as he wants to wait longer but i have ankolosing spondylitis that gets worse every year and I had trouble carrying my boy full term and worry if we wait longer my back wont hold out. Am I being neurotic?