Thanks Redlady. My DH has low motility good everything else but he has got me pregnant 3times in 13months so think they must be ok. Its my dodgy tubes (now tube) that is preventing us from having another bubba. Do you know if the HSG (I think thats what its called) helps unblock them or cleans them alittle? I'd love not to need IVF but I and our Gyno think thats what will need to get the emby in the right spot. So I am waiting for confirmation my remaining tube is also no good and then we can head down that track. I feel like I have being waiting so long and there is still so much more waiting but I am now at the stage where I accept that (after many tears and tantrums) and have hope that either way eventually we will have another child.