Yeah that's what I can't get my head round to be honest, the thought that we might have frozen embryos that we can't use. Maybe the counselling will help me sort this out in my head. The cost is offputting of course but at the end of the day, we'll do what it takes and we're lucky enough that we could just about afford it. I think I'll keep going with the OI as long as the clinic let me, at least 3 more and then decide where to go from there. Please god not let it be that long, I;m just praying that this one will work.

Thanks xxx