I really needed to talk to someone about the m/c side and what if we don't have success?
Lily, the counsellor did say they were there if we needed to talk to them at anytime, so perhaps they don't get in your face too much at the start if there is no point?

Thanks again, I guess I am worried that we will still be in the same situation as we are now.
I know the first question wasnt meant for me and I hope you dont mind me butting in but I think it kinda relates to the question you have asked me too. I spose that perhaps IVF clinics have so many patients these days that they dont feel they 'can waste' valuable resources like this. Even though I am fully aware it is certainly not a waste!!! Its just that like you said why bother if it doesnt get to that stage iykwim?? I am so sorry as I know that has come off rude and uncaring but i just cant get the wording right! ARRRRGGGHH.

It is such a scary though to think that this wont work for you. All the what ifs are just plain terrifying. I am so sorry that this is happening and I hope that this journey startes a new level really soon, hun