My husband didn't want to tell anyone either but I did. Told my family and alot of friends and my co-workers. Turns out its the worst thing that I could have done as now everyone keeps putting their noses in and asking me what am I doing wrong and to try this and that etc which now makes me so emotional and cry. I think because I had two easy pregnancies I expected the third to come along without any hiccups. Now its harder then ever as we have been diagnosed with some problems and I only have one tube now from an ectopic pregnancy. In hind sight I think I would have not told anyone and said our family was complete to avoid all the questions and advise on how to get pregnant and what I should try next.
Thats in hind sight though and there is no way I could have kept it to myself but I do wonder if I would be coping better emotionally if no one kept asking me why I am not pregnant already.
Welcome to BB anyway. You will get lots of support here from people who have similar situations to yourself. I hope you get your BFP soon.