To be honest, while IVF is emotionally draining - in a way it helps, as at least you are doing something proactive.

Join us in the LTTTC and AC thread - there's lots of people in there - lots of positive stories and we can answer pretty much any question you have. I don't know what I would have done without BB. It's been so helpful for my sanity.

Sorry your journey is turning out to be harder than you had hoped - with your DHs issues you might find IVF really helps as you ensure that eggs get fertilized - which is the first hurdle!