thank u all for your replys ... yes i loved the tips about o dr google lol iam guilty of that but i will stay away for my sanity and good idea on cleaning etc i hve sme jobs i need to do that will def keep me busy thnk u all soooo much this site is such a relief as its full of knwlege and wisdom frm all u lovely ladys who are going thrgh the same thng etc thnks ladys xooxox