Time off work for IVF

[sunshine 11]

I did tell my boss before I started as even though my bloods had already been and would continue to be before I normally start work, I wasn't sure how many tries I would have and didn't want to have to worry about lying to my boss for the retrieval and transfer dates. I was worried about all the hormones turing me into a crazy woman too (which they didn't really) I am autonomous at work so I could easily have just been late or taken afternoon off, but I felt much better after telling my boss.
I told my boss I had been trying for a long time already so it was very realistic that IVF would take a long time too. I also said I trusted my boss not to share it with anyone , including HR, as it was not going to impact my work - in particular though because I hadn't even told my family as I found people knowing made it more stressful for me.
Most people these days know someone who has infertility problems so I think if you are upfront it is much better as people are sympathetic if they know what is going on.
Best of luck to you

[MissMagpie]

Hi Kimmi,

I too was open with my boss and told him before I started IVF. At my clinic they had different phamplets with info on them to give to family/friends and one specific for employers so I gave my boss that to read.

Same as the other girls, I tried to get early morning appointments where possible or late afternoon ones. I think being up front and honest with your boss if you can is the best way. I too was worried about my moods swings and emotions and there were days when I just cried especially when AF arrived or egg pick up didnt go that well so if people at work are aware, they know whats going on. Thats just my opinion

Hope all goes well

Tania

[kimmi]

Thanks Ladies, I just thought it would be wise to see how others had done it before.

You all were on the same track that I think I plan to go on. Be upfront. Yeah, I think that's the way.

Thanks again.