hello there i HEAR you . i have 4 boys alex10 jayden8 kyran6 and logan 7months . honestly when i found out i was having another boy i cried and cried i so desperately want my little girl. BUT its funny because things just adjust and u get used to the boys and no girls and wonder do i really need a little girl to be a little tom boy ??????. but then u have days where the boys all want to go fishing with their dad and yr left home bored i wonder how it will be when there older ... like will they spend time with me or just wont to be off with their dad. ???? would love to chat with u .