ex FIL just had a heart attack

[{sarah}]

He's her grandfather, I wouldn't think it's inappropriate.

[Kitt3n]

Yeah I know, for her, but for ME to be there.... KWIM?

eta - I would hate to run into DD1's dad while we were there, I truly believe it's his fault that his father is in this shape.

[{sarah}]

I don't think so, someone would have to take her to visit, so logically that's you. IMO he is still technically a part of your life because of DD so it's appropriate. Now if your DH took her that would be inappropriate

Hope he's ok?

[Kitt3n]

Now if your DH took her that would be inappropriate

Hope he's ok?

Well, my now DH and ex FIL get along very well, they have had a beer a few times when ex FIL has dropped off DD. He'd have to take us anyway as I don't drive!

He is in intensive care, so I don't even think we can see him yet?

[JCE0810]

I dont think it would be inappropiate

I hope your ex FIL is going to be ok

[{sarah}]

DD more than likely won't be able to go into ICU, I think there are age restrictions.

Sorry about that, I just kind of made the assumption that there might be anomosity between the ex's family & the new family. Sorry, I didn't realise

[boomba]

Make sure you take her its her grandad hope he is ok xxx

[Footsteps]

i hope hes ok xxxxx

[Amity]

I would definitely do it. I've kept in touch with XPIL and if XH wasn't living with them at the moment, they'd have a lot more time with me and the kidlets.

Good luck.

[Rainbow_Mumma]

i wouldnt say its innapropriate at all she is his grandaughter after all he would probably like seeing her as for you i still dont see a problem from what you said the 2 of you are still close despite not being with his son anymore