Fellow larger families, how often do u and ur partner dtd?

[Anila]

THANKYOU!! aussienic!!
We used to dtd on a regular basis, but i just dont know why we no longer do, and it makes ttc really really hard!

[aussienic]

I forgot to add.. when we were TTC we still did it the same amount of time.. but we aren't trying anymore I think (imo) it is important to maintain a seual relationship regardless of TTC or not I find those weeks that we do slacken off we get grumpy and snappy with each other.. I seem to have a higher sex drive then DH but he always says we still do it more then average so shhh and then laughs at me

[Anila]

LOL! I totaly agree with you there.
Hubby would like to know what social activities u have with ur children, hes going on about being at work all day, then taking the girls to dance and soccer training, basically i think hes saying he is too tired to dtd!

[aussienic]

Honestly we don't have any out of school activites as we go away alot so dont really have the time, plus I don't have my license which makes it hard as well.

When my Dh is home we go camping, fishing or on bike rides with the kids.. We have 2 in school and 2 at home.. next year we will have all 3 boys at school

Dh and I don't find the activites we do with the kids tiring if anything they fill us with more energy. I notice you live in a much larger city then I do so lots of driving and traffic would make you tired as it is draining. We live in a small town where it only takes you 10 mins to go anywhere really unless you want to go to bigger shops which is only 20 mins away lol..

I threaten my Dh with horny Goat weed (on his slack weeks)

[squidipa]

we have 5 kids and once they are all in bed we are to stuffed to dtd but i know we could eb making more time for that but its just not a priority at the mo

[maz]

Before my bum issues it was once a day..but it has varried since due to again my bum as it hurts me quiet abit the day after (must be the snoggles banging )
and when were TTC tank...3 times a day

[squidipa]

i forgot to answer your other question sorry when trying to conceive it was 7-11 times a day when i was furtile