Mel - She moved 5 hours away in August last year. We found out youngest DSD was at her grandparents so we went and picked her up yesterday. We had her for a couple of hours then as soon as dh said no to something she wanted she wanted to go back. I don't think she hears the word no very often. DH asked her why she never talks on the phone, she said she doesn't want to risk it (mother getting mad). Its sad we used to have them alot and they were happy, now they don't even want to stay. We went down the shops DS made DSD walk beside his pram and hold his hand the whole time, it was very cute. When we dropped her off DS cried and screamed and totally lost it for about 20 minutes, he wouldn't calm down for me or dh. Its so hard when they have been here then have to go home.