I did it, I told DD about her biological father

[Shades]

Think how long it took you to work up the courage to tell her - this is a big thing - expect her to take some time to process it.

[Cocolove]

Shes fallen asleep!

Why did i do this again. Im so numb & i just want to throw up

[~Kim~]

I don't think you've done the wrong thing at all. Openness and respect are role modelled traits, and when she's bigger she'll be grateful and no doubt reciprocate those traits.

She is just processing in her own time.
I'd be proud of her too.

[Cocolove]

I dont understand my own feelings, I cant imagine what she feels

[Catastrophic]

You did the right thing xox you made the choice and you know deep down in your heart it is the right one, she had a right to know... (I didn't catch her age, how old is she?) tears are too be expected, these are not bad tears, showing emotion is not a bad thing. When she wakes up in the morning give her the biggest cuddle and just keep being open and honest with her.
xoxox a huge hugs to you and to her xoxox