Vanita, I got the same thing when I fell pg withTehya. I must admit I was abit worried about how I would cope with 4 kids and in a way I guess that it might be abit easier for me as I have 2 older boys (13 and 10) and then the younger 2. Then again I seem to be covering all bases with kids. I have the teen, the pre teen, the toddler and the newborn!!! The teen and the toddler have to be the hardest.

4 kids just means a bigger car, oh and an extra bedroom

It is very rude for people to assume anything negative be it your first or your fourth baby.

Take care
Trish