no possibility of "convincing" him to reverse?
^Yes when i had Number 4 something snapped and i knew that i was gunna have another.. hehe.. Dh has been neutered now so there are no more.. but I think that if he wasnt.. hhhmmmmm..
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Ah But I have.. .. .. .. .. .. .. not in the flesh though.It's funny I had your voice in my head & you didn't sound like I expected rofl, I imagined you sounded like a saint roflmfao. j/k
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no possibility of "convincing" him to reverse?^Yes when i had Number 4 something snapped and i knew that i was gunna have another.. hehe.. Dh has been neutered now so there are no more.. but I think that if he wasnt.. hhhmmmmm..
Hi everyone!
Wondering if I can jump right in here. I was a member of this site a long time ago before I had Caitlin. I have four beautiful children. I have my days where they drive me mental, but most of time it's great.
Speaking of having DH neutered lol, we are not sure what we will do as yet. I am fairly sure that there will be no more children here. Very happy and content with the four we have, so we have been discussing options. Has anyone had their tubes tied? (even though it's not technically that anymore, they clamp the tubes but you know what I mean) I just don't know what is the best option. I am on the pill atm after having my implanon removed a couple of weeks ago due to lots of spotting.
Looking forward to getting to know you all.
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Bubbyno4 hi sweeetie great for you to be back! I often wonder when I will get to the point of knowing when enough is enough. I "KNow' there is one more at least and thinkikng perhap just one more after that, I love being a mother.
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Welcome Bubbyno4, or should I say welcome back!
Oh I had my tubes tied, don't do it!! The pain I went through each month is not worth the ease of not falling PG, I ended up having them reversed.
There are so many women suffering from having it done
It is the worst form of contraception there is.
Soul, are ya bags packed?
The lounge went today yikes, I think it has sunken in now.
hi ya bubbyno4 - DONT DO THE TUBE THING!!! I totally agree with Storm, I had a reversal and it was the best thing ever. No more pain!!!!
Speaking of pain...can someone tell c certain little 'bugger' to stop trying to push on certain exit parts of my body cause its just not funny anymore
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hi guys
how are we all
welcome bubbyno4 i have 4 girls and im the same 4 enough i think just dealing through their different stages at the moment is so draining me .
i cant beleive you going storm good luck with the move and cant wait till you get back on
ok guys a big hello to everyone
try to catch up tommorow
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Hi everyone
Welcome back bubbyno4 !!!! I have 4 kid's and thought that is all i would have, couldn't picture myself with anymore, but here i am now, with my new DH to be, trying for another one !!! You just never know what will happen in this funny world hey I don;t know alot about getting your tubes tied/clamped, but i would recommend the 'merina' iud.
Good luck with the move Storm, i'm sure everything will go ok
I feel for you Maz, they always seem to want to kick in the worst possible places
Hi jes, nice to hear from you
I'm sure you would keep having them forever if you could Soul !!!!
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Stuff the packing storm I will buy all new stuff!!!
What do you think of my new siggy? I decided to give the breast pic a rest and just stick pheeny's face there instead.
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Awww Soul, he is a sweetie!!!
Yeah, I feel like that with the house lmao, but most the stuff is only a few years old, so i can't!
Thanks for the well wishes ladies!! I'm sure we will be fine too!!
Last day tomorrow, or maybe Monday morning, load up Mon night & we're off first thing in the morning, aaaarrrggghhhh, what am I doing????????lol. I'm excited.
Dont forget me.
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I'm off ladies. See you all on the flip side!!
Take care!!
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Hey storm have a safe trip!!!! Hope i didnt miss ya i have been taking it easy!!!! Anyway enjoy it all and can't wait for you to get back on here!!!!!!
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bye storm
take care and see you when you get back
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Bye Storm, have a uneventful trip !!!!!
Hi everyone, hope your having a great weekend. It is so hot here in melbourne today, i'm sweating like a pig lol
I tested this morning and got a faint line, yay!!!! Going to keep testing though until it gets darker....hopefully
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Wow congrats lea i hope all stays well !!!!!!!
Hi everybody i know i have been slack buti have been reading whats been going on. I have been doing my best to take it easy.
I had a melt down about a week ago and cried for a couple of hours! I felt like the worst person in the world , everybody has been so excited about us having baby number 7 but i have had my doubts! Which i felt awful about, but i just couldn't get excited! Don't get me wrong i would be devastated if anything happened to my little bubba , its just that it wasn't on the cards and Mitchie needs alot of time spent with him with his floppy baby syndrome ( he is getting heaps stronger now ) and i just didn't see how i could have another bub and give it all the love and time it will need plus give Mitchie all the extra time and love and physio that he needs if that makes any sense.
Of course i will be able to do it and i hope to be more excited about this bubby soon ( gosh that sounds soooo bad) its just that there is soooo much that has to be changed to fit this bub in everywhere.
We will get there and this bub will get all the love in the world its just my emotions are scrambleed atm!
Anyway sorry for the blah post but i am finding it is helping by talking it through and i really want to get excited about this bub and thats not going to happen unless i deal with my emotions first!!!
Anyway have a great weekend
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OMGGGGG LEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA WHOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sniff sniff boy boy stormy!!
Kat its ok sweetheart your allowed a melt down every so often!
Jess, how r u beautiful?
Where is everyone?
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Thanks soul, my mum said the same!!!!!!! ITs funny though because i have always been the strong one and have always been able to just suck it up and get on with it! But not this time, poor DH didn't know what to do so he just held me while i cried and cried and kept telling me how much he loved me and that it will all work out!!!! Deep down i know i will cope and i will love my bubba but there is just soo much to be considered! Especially the whole birth part. This is when i lost it, i asked my doc about going trial of scar or VBA2C and he wasn't keen on the idea!!!!!
It tore me apart, i can't cope with another c-sec. But i listened to his reason and i understand where he is coming from but i will be pushing my knowledge on him and will be speaking to the midwives also. I have done my research and i know the stats! Considering i have had 4 successful vbac's with no sign of uterine rupture, my odds are pretty good. IT literally only changes from .07% chance of UR from first c-sec to .09% chance of UR after your second c-sec. I think these are good odds and i will be going for trial of scar as long as bub is in a good position! He said that at the end of the day if I choose to go in when i am in labour they will obviously support me but i must be aware of the risks!!!!
So i am aware and armed with info to take back. I feel much better since i have made this decision, but of course it is in the back of my mind that if needs be then of course i will have a c-sec, i just hope and pray it doesn't come down to that!!!!!!
Anyway thats enough from me on that topic. It is sooooooooo cooooool that lea got a BFP thats another one of us increasing our family!!!!!! Must e getting close to your turn soul !!!!!!!!
Have you found ways to get some privacy yet????
Anyway Dh should be home any minute so i shall jump back on later hopefully! Oh soul i posted in the feeling like a failure yet again this lady's journey to having a VB after 3 c-secs it is awesome and i cried its just pics and her story that flashes up but i thought it was soooo awesome. Anyway if you have time check it out.
Cheers
Kat
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oh hon your such a beautful person you really are. I wish I was closer, just to sit and talk with you, let you cry or laugh or both and I would do them with you. I cry if someone else does, pathetic I know!! What ever the birth is sweet is the way it is meant to be, keep remembering that. It will all go the way its suppose to, and no matter how you think about it now, it will still do its own way when the time comes,m so just relax about it ok, it will be wonderful because you will meet your beautriful baby who obviosly is in a rush to be in mamma arms, or she would not be coming so soon. She knows she has picked the perfect mummy for her, so she decided to come earilier! Now that is love if ever I seen it!!She knows you will e her rock and can handle what ever life throws at you, sure you will have days where you could toss your cookies at everyone, but sweetness that is part of being human! When you feel those little limbs move inside your womb for the first time, you will know life is the way it is meant to be. I wish it was me having another baby. Even though I am a little scared stiff at the same time. Have a relaxing bath my love, wont be long before you wont be able to get out of the bath lmao!!! I am sending yu lots of love and a big cuddle. Can you feel it?
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