Larger Families Chatter - October 2007

[Katstribe]

Well apart from it being unusual i think its awesome that you know so much about your wifes body's inner workings!!!!!!! My DH is exactly the same when it comes to me being PG!!! Thats when he actually fell for me i was PG to my first husband and he thought i was so cute and adorable!!! Mind you i didn't know this until two years later when we ended up together!!! I told him he was strange, LOL!!!!!!!!! I figured its a hubbys job to say the right thing to us when we are PG but for another man to find me attractive, cute, sexy and adorable ( his words) when PG with someone elses bub thats bizzar!!!
Mind you i love him for it now, and hence we have 6 kids and number 7 on the way!!!!!!
So i guess you will definately be having a big family with feeling like that too.

Anyway take care all i will try and get back in here later today!!!
CYA
Kat

[soul]

lmao my hubbie is shaking his head at this strange man talking cm with a bunch of "Other" women besides his wife. Guess it would feel like you been with all blokes talking sperm and this one women comes in talking about how much she loves her mans sperm and proceeds to discuss it with these womens husbands, just feels too weird for me.

No more talking about it for me!!!I am a private women person. And your not Alan!!! he he he!!!!!!


I can talk babies though. I can do that!



I have been doing some healing from a past hurt about losiing our baby and a birth de-brief all at once, I spent all last night crying my heart out, everything just came flooding back. I dare say I will not be ttc for a while I think, I need to heal old wounds first. if you want to understand better its in the birth de-briefing.


Hope you are all feeling good today.

[gorgeous_lea]

Oh Soul, i just read your post about your loss and your traumatic birth, i'm so sorry you had to go through that, i can't believe people who take on a job that's supposed to care abuot people, treat you like that. Those two nurses who were pg and discussing names etc in front of you, must have no heart at all, it makes me sick thinking about it. I'm so glad you are dealing with it all and looking into what you can do to stop it from happening to someone else.
Huge hugs to you and Chris from all my family, i'm thinking of you.

ps: wasn't that wonderful of someone to get you a platinum memebership, you must be soooo excited !!!!

[maz]

Oh I am a slack tart now arent I...ROFL
Sorry girls...have been down in the dumps with all this pg sickness (something I have never had before) sciatica, liver cr@p, itchyness blah blah blah.....no more babies for me after this one!!!!
Have text Storm...she wanted to know if we missed her DER WOMAN!!!!!! hahahah
How is everyone doing..what have I missed out on??? (I should stop being so lazy and read back NAH)
I am sick to death of itchy nipples!!!!!! sorry for TMI but I have a feeling that some of you will understand!!!

[Pretty Butterfly]

Hi girlies. Well hubby really shocked me!! It was my b day on Tuesday, so we have bd'd a fair bit this week. He knew by dates I was fertile around this week, so we've been VERY careful. I should of o'd about wednesday. He now informs me he FOGOT to be careful on WEDNESDAY and FRIDAY!!! WTF!!! (I'd had a little drinky poo or 2 and didn't pay any attention!!)He even mentioned there was lots of cm for gods sake!!! I have a good track record of falling preg at o time!!! Fingers crossed he missed. Kane is only 14 weeks old!!! I did want another one.... but not yet!!!

[soul]

Thank you Lea, that means alot.


Purple, have you still not worked out how babies are conceived?????!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I had a drink accident too, when I was 16, whats your excuse lmao!

[Pretty Butterfly]

I know!! We're hopeless!! Lucky we love kiddies and wont be devastated if we slipped up! Gonna buy him a bigger t.v!!!! People think we dont have one and are bored.....!!

[Dustmite]

Jodie - LOL. when he said it was an accident you sure he didn't have a mischievous look on his face? lol.

My son is kind of a result of adult drink consumption. My wife was not really want any more children at the time. The kids and I had been working her over trying to talk her into it for a while and I knew when she was fertile and had ramped it up a bit (not badgering her though). Anyhow, she had something to drink and was weak and came back and woke me up. When it came time to prevent she decided it was my present...lol.. Then afterwards she told me it was just the once. I pointed out that based on the timing it was as good a chance as any and she should give me the rest of the opportunity for that month (day of O and day after I think it was). So she agreed that we could try for the next two days but after that it would be on a month to month basis if she felt like letting me try. Yeah, the two week wait did her in. She was looking at maternity clothes and was hopelessly lost at that point. We MC that month but by then she was thinking she wanted another or at least was hooked on trying for my sake so she said she wanted to try at least one more time...lol. Now I have a little man that likes to wake up once every hour or every 20 - 30 minutes at night.

[shazza]

hi guys
how are we all im not good got one of the kids virus so feel like im dying had to get on here to check something so i thought id say a quick hi
catch up when im better

[gorgeous_lea]

Wow, it is sooooooo quiet in here lately !!!!!

I'm hoping it's because you are all such busy beavers you have no time to post in here!!!!!

Hope the move went well Storm, cant wait to hear from you again

GL with all your legal stuff Soul, i'm positive it will all turn out right for you, you deserve it, and so do the women going to that hospital in the future, who will benefit from it as well. GL again.

Hi jes, maz, dustmite, purplemamma, kat and anyone else i've missed, i have preggy brain to blame for my forgetfulness now lmao !!!!

[Katstribe]

Hi Lea, it is very quiet in here isnt it!!! Iknow i haven't been on in a few days ( maybe longer)! I have just been flat strap with the kids and there is sooooooo much to be done before we go on our hol! But my preghead just won't let me sort though it all properly!

Anyway sorry i have been so quiet girls i will try and get on here more! MMMmmmmmm i wonder where everyone is???? Is it because we are all missing storm???? I hope she comes back soon!@!!!!OTherwise our thread might die.............

On a serious note though, Soul honey i read your post the other day about your traumatic births of last two bubs and it seriously tore me apart! I wanted to post then but i was sooo upset that i just couldn't!
It is absolutely disgusting what they have put you and your family through, and they need to be held responsible for it!!! I truly hope and pray that your next experience is the beautiful experience that it should be. Knowing you i believe it will be! Good luck darl and i hope taht it has helped to get it all off your chest! I know how i feel about my last c-sec and it was nowhere near that traumatic.

Best go my boy just woke up
Huge hugs to you soul

Kat

[*bLuE*]

Hey guys..

I'm still here lurking around.. I read all the posts but rarely get time to respond.. got lots going on here atm.. today the kids are all sick, chucking sick.. YUCK. I think that they picked something up at the pool yesterday, dont know. the only one that is not sick is the two year old and she is the one that wants all the attention.. What do ya do??

[Pretty Butterfly]

Well af arrived so no slip up... but hubby was disappointed!! yah!! So i'll get bubba no.6 later onnow!! 3 weeks till surgery... Thank you soul for your lovely words on another thread.... gorgeous.... We're doing great and the bb milk is aflowin' ....

[Pretty Butterfly]

And Hubby made me a platinium member for National Cleft Awareness week!!! Its bubbas first one! Look how hot they made me!! It's just fab and i'm more glad every day I found BB!!!

[Katstribe]

Congrats on becoming a platinum member purplemamma!! Awesome new look too

Hi everyone i can't believe how qiet it has been in here lately!!! Where has everybody gone???? Soul and Maz did you end up running away with Storm?????? There are just so many missing in action here!

Oh well i hope everyone comes back soon. Also whats with our thread going on soooo long? Normally we get a new one at around 150 posts........ Maybe its cause we talked soooo much before they got sick of opening new ones!!!!!!!!

Not much happening here (ha ha) well lets say nothing out of the normal rush around! Mitchie had a paed appoint yesterday and he was soooo happy with his progress, which was fantastic. It seems that he is weaker on his right side, so we will have to try and strengthen that a bit more.
But he finally sat up all by himself!!!!!!! It was so exciting and now everytime he does it he gets this cheeky grin on his face and you can see he is just as proud of himself as we are!!!!

Anyway he cracking atm so i best go. Take care girls and come back soon, i miss you all!!!!!!

Cheers
Kat

[maz]

PLease someone hand my eyes balls back an dput them back in my head.
I really need someone to hit me on the head a remind me to get my fat, plump butt in here more often.
Dust mite - you sound exactly like my hubby...he has informed me he knew when to 'do the deed' caue of the cm factor and then when I was moody made me go and buy a pg test cause he 'just knew' I was UTD! smart @rse ROFL. He had really bad ms while I was pg with the boys and with VYolett and this one he was had nothing...bar a bit of a tummy ache....so it looks like sunshine is defently another girl.
Lea - honey congratulations matie...what wonderful news to come back to. Tummy rubs now altogether.
Hello all my love bunnies (I am in a really tired state of mind)
My count down has began in earnest...9 weeks to the day for my c/s. My legs are cramping really badly with this sciatic nerve $hit. mY itching isnt as bad anymore...still there but has eased off...Ive stopped drinking as much milk and eating dairy. And OMG Ive started getting really tired all of a sudden....doesnt help that Vy woke at 4.30am and has only just gone down again NOW!!!!!
Off to do some house work....I totally cleaned my front yard on the weekend and changed my lounge around yesterday...wonder what mission I can accomplish today? Maybe fold the 6 baskets of washing sitting in the corner NAH!!!!!!!

[Katstribe]

Maz slow down!!!!!!! Man it sounds like you are nesting already............ its tooo early woman!!!!

I can't believe that you only have 9 weeks to go.... where did that go???????????????????? I had probs with my sciatic nerve on both sides with all bar my first PG and wasn't sooo bad with last so maybe its a girl thing?? Don't know but i was def worse with it with my girls.

[Astrolady]

New thread time ladies

Love