Soul, don't worry too much about posting twice. You don't have to wait for someone to reply. It's just that the way they monitor the size of the chat threads, is by the no. of posts. So if a thread gets lots of itty bitty posts with someone saying, "oops I forgot to add"....or, "sorry I meant to say...." then it fills up quickly, faster than it really needs to iykwim?
I love hearing what all of you are doing for your girls. DD is just one but I want to be prepared (and have her be prepared!) when the time comes.