HI girls, I have 4 kids however my oldest are soon to be 16 and 12. My youngest are only 3 & 4, but between the oldest fighting constantly, and then the youngest crying half the day each if not all day it does get tiring. My dh is hardly ever home, I wonder why (lol). So now I have to wonder why I want another little bundle of joy. (lol) I hold onto knowing tho, that life will get easier.