Why does everyone need to have an explanation for everything? Why is me and DH loving our children not enough reason for us to have 6? Why does the news that we are having #6 need to be met with "Well, I guess thats to be expected with Mags being 1 of 7".

Why was it, when my mum was having #6, people were saying "Well I guess thats to be expected with Gail being an only child"

WTF?

I wish people would stop trying to justify my life to suit their insane ideas of 'pre-disposition'. I am sick to death of every choice I make somehow becoming a reflection on my childhood. Why am I never given any credit for my decisions or blame for my mistakes - always my parents.

Its no wonder no one has any sense of personal responsibility these days. Its far easier to blame their parents.

Just had to get that out. Thanks for reading.