Oh Jes you poor darlin! There is nothing worse than when they say those awful words! Only one of mine have ever said it and that was my elsdest DS! He was going through puberty at the time and well i gave him what for i can assure you! He really hurt me and i let him know just how much it hurt to have him say that to me! Sometimes i think they need to realise just how much it affects us. They want it to hurt but don't think it will IYKWIM. Kids seem to think that parents are invincible and we can't be hurt so in times like that i think we should let them know. I know my DS thought it had no affect until i gave him what for! Then he appoligised and never said it again.
Girls do go through the whole puberty and hormanl stuff so much younger than the boys. It is so much for their young little bodies to go through. I would just sit her down when you have had time to calm down yourself and just try and talk to her about it all. You will find its mainly just her hormones going crazy but i do think she needs to understand just how much it breaks your heart to hear her say those awful words! As i said to my DS what if that was the last thing you ever got to say to me??? Would you be okay with that? He burst into tears and appoligised so much i was almost in tears with him.
Good luck sweetie and jsut remember deep down she does NOT hate you its more just that she knows that those wors will hurt you!
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