boys are easier???? ya reckon?

I have been at school this afternoon because DS8 is a bully!
I know he is boisterous and very competitive with his older brothers but she has had some parents complaining about him being too rough and name calling in the playground.
We have had behaviour issues with him for a few months now but I didnt realise it had passed over to school as well.
Trouble is this child has absolutely NO consequence of actions whatsoever. He doesnt seem to have a currency that affects him and we have tried everything we can think of.

She is going to talk to the behavioural expert they have at school to see if there is something else we can try,because she agreed with me when I said he just doesnt get it. It doesnt go in, well it certainly doesnt stay there anyway.

Today is one of those days when I think I am done!