Hello

Becstar - hey I have 6 kids 15DS, 10DS, 6DD, 2DS, 2DD, 10weeksDS. I just take each day as it comes we have our good days and our Bad, but I have found since the 6 year old has started school the twins are soooo much better.
Aussienic - It was the same in our house with the 6 year old until I decided no MORE, she was not sleeping, Not listening, fighting with the other kids. I decided to start giving her one to one as often as I could she found it really hard when the twins came along. I would praise her when she was doing the right thing and when she was not I would give her time out. We still have our good days with her and our bad, Lily has been soo much better since she has started school.

Cathie