it never ceases to amaze me how we as human beings can be so thoughtless at times - from the minute we get engaged - "so whens the big day" to the moment after your married "so will we being hearing the pitter patter of little feet any time soon?"... and then there's the "so you two gonna have kids?" if there is a delay in spitting a child out as per everyone's assumption that its what your supposed to do - moving onto the moment you have delivered your first born "so are you having any more?"... and if you happened to be "lucky" enough to have a boy and a girl "the pigeon pair" you apparently don't need to have anymore.... which moves onto the comments about "wow - your pregnant AGAIN???!!!"

Tanya - I can completely understand you feeling hurt - its just rude - especially in such a public arena such as facebook.

And congratulations are in order!! (Thanks MrsMac!)