I feel you! Every time I see you I wonder how the hell you manage! I only have 4 & I'm struggling!
I do have a DH, but he's away. Its very rare he helps with anything anyway. I'm still the one running on empty while he sleeps in when he's here.
I do enjoy the freedom without him, but its hard when there's no one to bear the brunt of your frusteration & it all ends up on the kids And shopping is damn near impossible!!