Yeah, the kids share their time between Mum & Dad 50/50.

The 4 yr is one of a set of twins - the other 4 yr old is a piece of cake. He's so well mannered - most of the time.

I will have to talk to him I know - but he's stubborn and pig headed too and I don't want him to think I'm saying I'm better - because I know I'm not.

Some rules are variable with my DD - simply due to her Sensory Processing Disorder - and sometimes I just need to react in a different way than I would with any other child - he doesn't get this and I don't want it to seem as if I'm playing favourites. My DD has VERY strict rules about her behaviour and there are consequences when she doesn't follow through. His threats of consequences for his kids are always empty - makes me want to bop him on the nose!! (I don't condone violence!!!)