Agree with many of the PPs - on the ettiquette (ie leave leftovers) and also the hassle of getting your plate back lol. If I were this woman I would just make two cakes... one for party and one for DD.
We have often done this because we end up wanting more of what we made the next day etc so it is just easier to make 2 batches.
The food stays unless the host asks you to take it. If you want your platter then ask the host before you leave if they have another dish that the food can be transferred into so you can take your platter/bowl etc home. This also gives the host the opportunity to tell you that you can take the left over food with you if you want.
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