Did I not word this correctly?

[Tegam]

I probably would only have replied if I could come. Also so many people are over the whole party plan thing. I think 7 coming out of 18 is great but the RSVP rate isn't great

[helle]

I had a Bright Bugs toy party thinger a while ago. I invited 21 people (all my friends with kiddies, basically). 11 RSVP'd as coming and 5 actually turned up.

I felt like the worlds biggest loser TBH ><;

[Cranky Kitten]

Ugh, that's even worse than not rsvp-ing in the first place! If you say you're going to go, you go - or if something comes up last minute, you let the host know with an apology.