I have issues with social occassions, etc.

Recently I tried to help myself by beginning to organise something.

It was "taken over" by someone else.

I know it shouldn't be a big deal, but because of my reluctance towards social outings - to me, it is.

I don't know whether to say something or not??

The way I would normally deal with this (read: not really deal with it) is next time saying "This is what I am doing, you may join me if you wish" - but I realise this is sort of P/A. Part of me considered not attending.

So, should I say something? Y'know - "Hey I understand it was not your intention but this was important to me, and I want to let you know how I am feeling because I don't want it to get in the way of us being friends"?

I am not good at moving forward - and I felt that maybe moving forward with this would help the social thing as well?