Limeslice - I guess the thing that seems so strange is that they are going to all the trouble of hiring a hall but then not providing the food themselves. As you said, it is expensive - why not have it at a park (that is free) and provide the food themselves.

I also think the invitation wording is a little strange saying that it is an afternoon tea and then asking everyone to bring a plate.

I agree, it is not a lot of work to organise a plate of fairy bread, but as I said in my last post, if it is really that easy, why don't the mum's just do it themselves? Afterall, there are 3 of them to sort it out.

I do think it is very commendable though that you share your opinion even if it does go against what everyone else says . . . that takes a lot of guts.