thanks ladies;

I am definately going to be there for DH and his mum, dad, aunt, cousins and so on.
I think its just that I feel a little odd. I don't know exactly what my role is and how I should act. Am I meant to be the strong one who looks after everyone, MIL is a stress freak and I know she will just do everything by herself, with the whole nursing home thing I have offered my help and she tells no everytime. I want to help, but I don't where to start.
Im not sure I even know what to say. Aarghh!

thank you

Justine