I was never really bullied but picked on quite a bit. A group of girls made high school really hard. A few boys picked on me for having no boobs and called me frigid. But the worst bullying i got was in year 11, i moved on to college and i had let slip to a male friend what things i had done in the bedroom with DP and he spread it around the school and i was called a **** on a daily basis, one girl wanted to bash me over it called me filthy, she would call me names whenever she saw me. They found where i lived (on the same street as the school) and spray painted **** on my drive way. Boys would sit outside my house beeping their horns. They got hold of my email address and back then MSN was huge and one added me as he heard that i was 'well known' for sleeping around. It was quite intense and put a strain on my relationship and friendships broke down. I ended up dropping out.

The girl who bullied me came into my work on new years day 2010, i thought 'here we go she will recognise me and say something' well she did but asked how i was, what i was doing with my life besides working where i was and was genuinely happy to hear i was pregnant. I see her around often and she is now a junkie leading a life of crime so makes me think maybe there was a reason why she treated me the way she did.

I don't know if i have forgiven or just forgotten about it.

In your case Muffy, i think telling her what she did to you may make you feel better (if you still hold grudges) Otherwise maybe hitting that 'block' button will be enough.