I either say that it's not cool, or walk away. It really ticks me off that Sometimes it feels like the majority of people think its ok. Even DH makes comments I don't like, and it's because of his upbringing (which is no excuse) and he is seriously lazy about changing his mentality. It's not a side of him I knew about until well after we were married, and the first time he said something my jaw hit the floor. Alot of his friends are the same. And it's the mentality of 'I'm not racist because I have friends from other coutries but that doesn't mean I have to stop being Australian and stop making jokes'. Dygwim? I really really hate it.