How to make friends? Im failing need help!!!!!!

[StrawberryFields]

I know how you feel. Unfortunately I don't really have any advice either just sympathy.

I haven't been able to make any friends here either and its not through lack of trying it just seems that some people (i.e women) don't like me! They're civil to my face at DH's work things, but they all deleted me off facebook, never invite me out to their shindigs yet talk about them right in front of me as if I'm not there when I do see them, and stuff like that. I also thought I had one friend but like you it turns out she was just using me so she could borrow my car - she paid for fuel and gave us some extra money but as soon as I needed a favour? No dice.

My only advice would be to make friends with men, for the most part they've realised that high school is over!

[onthefly]

I find it hard to make friends, but much easier since having kids.
You can try BB meetups - perhaps there are some people you've clicked with online who also happen to live nearby?
I've also made friends through my local ABA group. Definitely recommend joining and getting along to a meeting if you can.