I would want my mother, brother and father (if he were living) close by if that happened to me, I assume DH would too. Not just for the support *if I wanted it* (if I didn't they'd back off) but in case it all didn't go well and my baby passed They'd all be in one place already. I don't know, that's how I see it. I'll be thinking about your colleague and I hope she and her bub are okay.