I find it frustrating too. I have two acquaintances that told me that women that have c sections must feelclike failures and not real mothers. The other thing they said was that babies over 7lb are ugly.

My baby was by emergency c section at 9lb. She was beautifully chubby and absolutely gorgeous. I remember telling them how the c section saved her life and how perfectly gorgeous she was - and still is.

Some people can be very rude. I just think they're excruciatingly insensitive or just plain old dumb!