OMG Peanutter - a very similar thing happened to ME!!! You poor thing, it's horrible isn't it - you are fully aware that this is THEIR day but yet you don't want to be totally rude to the grooms mother?

In my situation, it wasn't an ex-boyfriend but my very very oldest male friend (since primary school) and his Dad kept saying all night that he thought it would be me and his son that got married in front of my husband and his new wife! There are only so many times you can nod politely and back away.