I will go against the grain....and say, if you have the got the money or could save up I would go. Life is made up of memories of occasions like this, for someone to invite you to their wedding is an extremely special thing, it is a huge compliment to you that your friend views you as a super special someone in his life who he wants to share his and his future wife's greatest day with. I would probably either just take DD with you or go as a family if you have the funds and turn it into a fantastic holiday as well. You will have memories of this forever and I don't think you will regret it.
We had this 2yrs ago except it was DH's best mate, they had known each since primary school and his brother's were also going to be going. There was no way I was not going to let DH go. It was just a matter of deciding if I would go with DD (4mths at the time). In the end he went for 7days.
He had a good time and the kids loved imagining what surprises he was going to bring home.
I would either go with Tinks idea or go yourself for minimum amount of time. It's one of those life opportunities you may regret later.
Chile would be a fascinating place and I don't think you would be bored at all.
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