I am so sorry but I am sitting here laughing myself silly at your post! So funny and I totally agree with you. I would be going crazy if I was in your position!!

I went to a tupperware party and was baffled why everyone was telling me to host one, 'I would save $$ on something', and I thought 'well I've already agreed to buy what I want and my friend can have the points, she's the one who's put on the food etc'...I would have invited nearly the same people and spent probably double on nibbles etc compared to what I would save...

Luckily my friends and I don't need an excuse to get together except for a big hunk of cheese and a few bottles of wine