RSVPing - If you say yes then go! Is this just me??

[Oorki Galoorki]

have they said why they can not come now??
at least they have told you they wont be coming(even though rsvping they would) imagine how you would feel tomorrow if no one came and you didnt know why..

[Ca Plane Pour Moi]

Hmmm. I'm a bad RSVPer. I'm a last-minute one, but I don't change my mind. I will give an INTENTION: we want to come/we may not be able. But due to DH's job, we don't know until a month in advance. For going out to dinner, not usually a problem. A wedding, more of a problem.

My sister and her mates make about four arrangements for one evening then pick the one they want the most or the one that hasn't been cancelled for better plan. That's the norm for them and it's accepted. I was horrified when she told me that she'd had three texts cancelling when she spent an evening with me: if they hadn't have cancelled she'd have cancelled them. OK so I was top but even so!

[tattoo_mama]

oops *hide*
ill hide my boohoo thread now

i rsvp'd yes to a party (albeit a friend i havent seen in yrs so i thought she wouldnt care either way) and DD was at XPs and she got sick so i went over to XPS instead and didnt bother letting her know i couldnt make it...then she called me F and C words all over facebook. classy...

but usually if its a casual gathering i say no (my BPD brings me down so 90% of the time i dont go out) but sometimes it changes to a yes on the nite

[Bumperstump Cummerbund]

Far out, I'm glad I'm not the only one! I just finished cleaning up from my tupperware party tonight - that noone came to. No calls/texts/emails, just 4 people on my FB event who said they were coming then didn't show up

LOL Emma, I saw that on your FB Can understand your reasoning too though, her reaction made me think noone else came either...