I guess im on the other side.
If my Inlaws/ mum and dad/sister take photos i dont have an an issue with them being shared amoung family. even ones i rarely see. we send a family photo out with chrissy cards but any that are shared around the family i dont honestly mind. im lucky as dispite the over-extended-ness of my family we're all fairly close. and it seems all of dads side have a "family collarge" on a wall with photos of all the family and vairying familiy events ect. I guess that i want other family members to see my kids grow up. I guess too with the resent passing of two close family members and seeing how many photos they had that my mum and dad had printed/emailed it made me realise that even though we didnt see them beyond maybe twice a year, they where still very much in contact with our kids and us. which means alot for me.

As for promo photos we had a photo shoot for the early intervetion service that have helped DJ. we saw that as helping them show how much good they do and help the *whole* family out too. we expressed we wanted no location shared but names where ok, as long as it was "shortend" IE D@z was DJ and V!(t0r was Vic.